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by : Countrygirl | written on :29/01/2009 | permalink

My supposable best friend has lost it!

Friend or foe? Is there a difference?

I really dont know what to do so i decided to write about it cause i cant talk to anyone about it cause all my friends are friends with her too! Well lets see she got married last year to a guy that had already signed up to go to Japan for 2 years he is in the Navy! She said that she didnt want to move there or take her kids there so she would stay here! Well every since he has been gone things have slowly just went crazy she started sleepin with other guys she feel in love with one but she knew she couldnt be with him cause he is married too but in a bad marriage. Well she was in a bad car accident and got a bad head injury but she just acts different her whole attitude! She does not talk to me that much anymore and I was the one that was there 24/7 from right after the accident happen til when she was allowed to go back to work i did everything took care of her givin her showers takin her to doctor appointments, takin care of her 2 extremely terrible kids cookin dinner every night doing laundry the whole nine yards i stopped sleepin in my room and got a air mattress and slept right next to her in the livin room. Anyways so she finds this guy on myspace that she knew 3 years ago that had moved away, well they started talkin like all the time like 5 or 6 hours straight on the phone emailin writing and IMing on myspace all of it. Well i eventually moved out i just couldnt take all of it anymore. She became very distant after this she use to text me over 100 times a day and would call atleast 10 but not anymore dont hear anything unless she has a problem. Well to cut this shorter than it would be the beginning of this month(Jan. 09) she decided she was going to Texas to visit her brother that she never talked to that i ever knew of. Well funny thing that is where this other guy lives....keep in mind she has not seen him in 3 years and back then they really didnt talk or hang out. So she goes to Texas tellin her husband that she is going to see her brother, well this other guy picks her up from the airport, they go eat and then go back to his parents (yes he lives with his parents lol) he is only 22 she is 25! I am 33! Anyways....well she is down there didnt really hear much from hr then one day i get a text message it was piture mail from her. So i open it it was her left hand with a ring on her ring finger...I sent back what is that? She replies a ring i said what kind of ring she said its on my left hand isnt it? I was like yes and.... she said he asked me to marry him...ok keep in mind she had only been there for like 7 or 8 days,so i am in shock i was like well what did you say she said its on my finger that means i said YES! I wrote back and was like what about your husband she said the seperation papers have already been drawn up! I was like you are kidding me! What the heck is she thinkin? She has not been with her husband in almost a year she married him and he left for japan and she is gonna do this to him livin in his house drivin his car using his money lettin him pay bills and buy her stuff and she is engaged to someone behind his back! So she came back and i have seen her once she has not wanted to hang out or anything she is stuck up the butt of a friend that just came home from Oklahoma and now she is livin in my best friends house with her and they are like weird but now the one friend is talkin to the brother of the guy my friend is engaged too so they are plannin on movin to Texas with thier kids and be with these young guys who still live at home with mommy and daddy! How does that work? I dont get it! Well I have talked to her husband and he is like HEARTBROKEN big time i feel so sorry for him! She is walkin out on a good thing a man who loves her and provides for her and takes care of her and her 2 children even though they are not his...To go be with this guy that probably cant provide a pair of underwear for her! I just dont get it i am so frustrated and annoyed with it all! Well me and her are sittin down and havin a talk friday and i am suppose to tell her how i feel and find out why she is doing all of this but i have a feelin i am gonna be lost for words when it comes down to it! So if anyone can give me some advice i would greatly appreciate it! I just dont understand how she goes from loving her husband cheating on her husband with a man here and fallin in love with him then going to Texas and fallin in love with another guy and get engaged! So lost! Anyways i sure would love some input it would be great! I will keep you all updated on this if you would like and also i will write more stuff cause i really dont have anyone that i can vent to or share my stories of life with! Thanks!

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Comments:
2009/01/29 14:58 - HadToBeMe writes:
Wow, it sounds like she's very unsecure and is just craving constant attention from someone. Now she's getting the attention from the Texas man so perhaps feels she doesn't need you as much. Her poor husband. Maybe we should write to Badhap and ask them to create a category just for your friend and you can keep us all updated for the rest of your friend's life :)
2009/01/29 16:11 - peter writes:
Arrhh, it must be horrid that you feel you can't talk to anyone. At least you vented here. You sound like a lovely person who is always looking out for everyone else and not looking out for yourself. I think you should be honest with her and if she wants to do something, let her. She can make her mistakes (if they end up being mistakes) and that's good 'cos maybe she needs to learn from them.
2009/02/03 08:22 - Countrygirl writes:
Thanks guys for the comments back! I will keep you all updated on what is going on! Yeah and about the own category thing i dont know iff they will do that but its a good idea lol! Well i will get back with more soon! I have been really sick thats why there is no updates!
2009/04/09 02:12 - southside305 writes:
shes not a real friend and let her mind er bussiness, life is too short and too painful to be caught up in someone else's fuck ups....


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