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by : Ashuvain | written on :13/12/2010 | permalink

How to ruin a friendship

Girls ain’t nothin’ but trouble

I met this girl at the begininng of college, she was the most beautiful, cute thing I had ever seen. Yet, as beautiful as she was, she didn't look artificial like other girls. After a bit more than two months, we we're such good friends she would say things such as ''You know, you're my only real friend'', etc, with a genuine smile only her can make. She txted me hundreds of times a day almost, and sometimes until like 3 am. I had this feeling she didn't love me, but at least I was her real good friend. Then, one day I asked another guy that she sometimes hanged around with, ''Hey btw does she text you hundreds of times a day, sometimes till very late, and tell you things that she shouldn't tell anyone?'' he said ''Yeah...''. I ask him, ''Does she sometimes tell you you're like her only real friend?'' he said ''Yes... how do you know?''. Then I realised I had been manipulated, this was too good to be true. Such a beautiful girl couldn't start hanging around with a loner like me this much. She was manipulating probably alot of other naïve guys. Next time I see her I tell her that I know how she's been manipulating me, etc. She says that she didn't lie, that she meant that I was amongst her only real friends. Honestly, every single cell in my brain thought she was still lying like a bitch, she had obviously been manipulating me. But when she said it, she looked like she really meant what she was saying... and I was scared to ruin my friendship with her, I had become addicted to the illusion. Next thing I know, I'm apologizing to her because I don't want our friendship to end. It doesn't work. I ask her ''Is there any way for me to fix this?'' she replies ''Only if you tell me why you jumped to conclusions so fast. What are you hiding from me?''. I admitted that I thought our friendship was too good to be true, etc, and that I thought she HAD to be manipulating me because it felt like a dream, an illusion. I said I didn't think such an amazing person could even bother being friends with me. Then she says ''That's nice, okay I forgive you''. After that she starts talking about a guy she thinks she might love and I tell her that I don't want to hear it. She says ''I cannot see that you like me because I don't want to''. I say, ''Why did you keep asking me why I did all of this if you already knew it?'', she replies ''I like why''. Basically, I've been manipulated, I've found out, once I confronted her she manipulated me again to make me believe it was my imagination, and in the end she got what she wanted from me, I admitted to her that I loved her. I'll never love a girl again, I promise...

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Comments:
2011/02/09 09:53 - Chaotic_Dreamz writes:
I wish I could kick her ass -_-'


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